Q. I feel as if I am being replaced. My 12-year-old daughter just told me that she would like to live with her father and bonus mom full time. She currently sees them on the weekends, but asks to see them more often. I always let her, but it doesn't seem to be enough. She did not see her dad for the first few years of her life – he was in the Army and traveling. Now he's home and is married with another son. At my house it's just me and I have to work all the time. I'm losing her. What's good ex-etiquette?